Signal #8 – This girl loves the hugs
Read more about how to tell if a girl likes you here.
When a guy is talking to a girl that he likes, he would probably start sweating or struggling with words. It is different with girls. When a girl is talking to a guy that she likes, her voice becomes a little different. You will notice that her pitch will be a little higher. She might sound affectionate and maybe a little bit flirty.
(This might be about as literal as a woman will get without being asked point-blank.) Referring to you in terms you would use for your guy friends (“dude” or “bro”) can also be a sign that she sees you more as a friend than a boyfriend. A lack of touch or mutual flirtation is — obviously — a signal that she’s not sexually interested in you. Of course, it’s your responsibility to create that sexual chemistry between the two of you through touch and playful teasing. That’s what separates a friend she’s attracted to sexually from a guy she sees as “just a friend.” But if she doesn’t respond, then you can safely conclude that you two are meant to be friends. Whether it’s a text, a phone call or a shared invitation, girls who are interested in you are going to initiate contact.
On the other hand, when a girl blows up your phone, texts you consistently and makes an effort to continue a conversation, she definitely likes you. So pay attention to how, and how much, she initiates contact.
One of the most telling signs that a girl is infatuated with you is when she constantly licks her lips as if she is nervous all the time. A nervous giggle is another sign you should look out for. This sign of a girl’s attraction is particularly useful if you haven’t spent too much time alone yet but are already seemingly interested in each other. If you haven’t considered yourself the most hilarious storyteller, but suddenly you are hanging out with a group of friends and she laughs at every little thing you say, rest assured that the attraction is definitely there. Pay attention to her friends.
A girl who is infatuated with a guy will always let it show, if not with words, then with actions. No matter how much time you get to spend together, she will always make sure to let you know she is focused on you. It’s one thing to hang out privately, even if you are having a lovely time, but it’s completely different when she makes her relationship with you Instagram or Facebook-official. Even if you currently consider each other to be friends, this move is a sign that she may want more. Most of us have a certain image that we try to maintain in a professional setting and even in a friendly circle, allowing only the closest friends and romantic partners to see our other, vulnerable side.
- This sign of a girl’s attraction is particularly useful if you haven’t spent too much time alone yet but are already seemingly interested in each other.
- One of the signs is that when I stare at her, she looks at me.
- This is a huge red flag.
- But the big problem is the girl I like is my best friend girlfriend.
For one thing, it prolongs the interaction. She’s spending as much time as she can with you, whether or not she invites you in. She’s also letting you know where she lives, which is a very powerful display of trust, since she doesn’t want just any guy knowing where she rests her head. On the other hand, if she refuses a walk or ride home, that can be a sign that she’s not interested, especially if walking or driving her home is convenient.
However, if a girl likes you, she will do the exact opposite. For instance, if she turns towards you, sits with her arms open, points her body in your direction, tilts her chin upwards, brushes her hair out of her face, or seems relaxed when you come around, those are usually signs that she is comfortable with you approaching her. Of course, this may not be a sure fire sign that she likes you, but it at least indicates that she is interested in a conversation with you, which can definitely get the ball rolling and give you the opportunity to look for other signs that she may be interested in you, too.
And don’t forget to share with your friends too, they may find it helpful. When you’re getting to know a girl, it’s natural that she would introduce you to her friends. But if she seems to be pushing you to be interested in a friend of hers, you can bet she’s not that interested in you.
If a girl does not usually hug her other friends but hugs you a lot, then it can’t be denied that she likes you. Think of this situation.
If she likes you, there’s no doubt she’ll have spent parts of her Sunday brunches and movie nights with the girls filling them in on all the deets about you. When they finally do meet you, they’ll definitely be looking at you to see if you live up to the image she’s painted through stories about you.
Imagine this. You walk into your office one day, and you see this blond girl is now a red head.
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